Exotic Dancing is part of a Woman's Gene...

Exotic dancing is an art. It is your own art, you, every woman out there has her own sensual spirit that has yet to be discovered. The dance is often thought of striptease dancing, notice the word “tease” . No one said that you had to be a stripper to be an exotic dancer, or one who dances exotically is a stripper. It depends whom you are performing for and for what reason. Exotic dancing is also a fun way to spice up a relationship. Spice up your relationship Another exciting thing to try is OIL Spice it Up with Oil

The artful dance can include everything from belly dancing, lap dancing, pole dancing, striptease dancing to sensual dancing in the club. What it comes down to, any dance that you feel sexy and bring out your sexy beast! Belly dancing builds the core to sexy dancing How many times have you just swayed and spun to music just for the joy of it? Have you been to dance clubs and been amazed how sexy the women look? What are they thinking when they dance? Nothing…it’s all about having a good time. That’s right, when you have a great time, you’re the sexiest! When you have a blast and look like you're enjoying it, you're even sexier.

I worked as a cocktail waitress in a Men’s Club. What?! Yes, I know you may wonder what role the cocktail waitress does, is she topless? I wondered too, when I was assured I was solely serving drinks and no stripping or topless was involved I decided to give it a try to learn why men go to these places. The entertainers were the ones that stripped and did their moves on stage. Like photos and book descriptions? Check out my favorite books.

Anyways, I enjoyed the dance music environment. My favorite music was hip hop, so every time one of my favorite songs was on, I’d be be shaking my booty as I walked back and forth from the bar to the customer. I wasn’t paying any attention to what I was doing, yet apparently customers were looking at me more than the exotic dancers on stage.

Many times, customers urged me to dance. I of course explained that I only serve drinks. The entertainers are the ones that dance. Why don’t you watch them? I recall one of the responses I got was “Because you look like you’re having fun when you’re dancing, it’s HOT!” “The girls on stage dance cause it’s their job, they don’t look like their having a good time, it’s not attractive”

So there’s one secret to dancing sexy…when you have fun you are naturally sexy.

Dancing is in the women’s gene already…it’s just that we’ve either been uptight about it and don’t let our inner beast loose. There are many great resources to help tap in the fundamentals , and once you have those down, you can integrate it into your own style. Books, DVD’s , exotic dance lessons are all great ways to get started.

Great Exotic Dancing Books Sexy dancing had caught on a craze, not only does it spice up a good relationship, it also is an exciting and sensual fitness workout. Noticed I said spice up a “good relationship”. Don’t do a striptease or lap dance to save a failing relationship, focus on communication and strengthen the relationship. Better yet, know if he’s even worth it. Does he appreciate you? If you are looking for some solid information on some good relationship books and tips. See my Great Relationship Book List.

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