Answers to your fears and how to build confidence before your first dance-Facing fears and turning it into confidence powerHere are the most common fears I hear in workshop that are of concern why girls are hesitant to give a lapdance or striptease. You can build your confidence and forget about these fears once you understand what they are. Fears before Dance #1.He might laugh at me When a guy is aroused he won’t be laughing. He might laugh a bit when you come out with your costume cause it may not be Halloween. But when he sees your sexy dancing your sexy look he will stop as he is now in an aroused state. If you’re aroused he will feel aroused. Fears before Dance #2.What if I start laughing? Laughing is a normal sigh of nervousness. Just keep your focus on your sexiness, when was the last time you laughed when you were aroused with a sexual thought? Never. Exactly, when you get yourself in that sexy zone you won’t have room for laughter. Fears before Dance #3.I might fall on my butt Play it off, it’s not likely to happen unless you’re doing some inverted trick on the pole. Stripteasing, lapdancing falling on your butt is not one likely from the lap dancing routine. Fears before Dance #4.I will look silly in the costume Have you seen yourself in the costume yet? Choose something you do feel sexy in, because when you feel sexy you’ll look sexy too. You will feel your sexual power being your favorite icon, say Xena the Warrior Princess, don’t you see that sexiness of Lucy Lawless already? Careful, you may get addicted to costumes. Fears before Dance #5. People will find out, neighbors would know Sure if you or your man tells others, and boy will they be jealous. When your girlfriends know what you’ve been up to they might want to learn some ticks too. The first reaction I got from a girlfriend when she saw the pole in my bedroom “Oh my gosh! What is this? This is a pole!!” I showed her my new learned butterfly inverted flip and she was amazed and stunned and said “You have to show me that some time” Fears before Dance #6. I don’t have experience doing anything like this Of course you don’t. Only professional strippers have the ample experience. This is why there are more and more striptease workshops out there. There are still 3 billion women out there like you who would LOVE to learn something like you are. Fears before Dance #7. I might hurt myselfDon’t attempt to jump on too many advanced moves you’re not comfortable with on the pole. Believe it or not, you should warm up if you are attempting to do inverting V slides on him during a lap dance or have many acrobatic acts. It would not be good to pull a muscle when doing a hip circle or getting up from the ground too quickly. Fears before Dance #8. I might look foolish Before a lapdance or striptease many girls start getting anxiety of looking foolish. If you keep thinking that, then you’ll feel foolish and awkward and thus act and move awkwardly. Which is what you don’t want, he can sense your attitude when you perform. By well preparing yourself and perhaps practicing in front of girlfriends or a mirror you can get the practice and thus build more confidence. Fears before Dance#9. I won’t be able to strip in time In time for what? Don’t give yourself too much pressure. Don’t tell him what you are doing until you are absolutely ready. Or better yet, don’t tell him at all and just surprise him. However, one must know tip is to choose the right timing. If he’s having a bad day at work, or is really tired when he comes home, it may not be a good time. You’re better off saving the surprise for later. Fears before Dance #10. I might turn into a hot sexy vixen out of control That’s one of the side effect risks you’ll have to take Learn Health Fitness and Beauty Tips in the "Be a Sexy Goddess Newsletter?" Lap Dancing tips from the Pro? Get a copy of my free Lap dancing Ebook Guide Today! Sign up and get updates on pole dancing, lap dancing and how to keep the belly fat gone forever |