How to Not Choose Music

Sexy Music...sexy is a feeling, everyone has a different feel to it, just like beauty. However, I can share with you "How to not choose music."

The biggest mistake women make when choosing music for their lap dance debut is they confuse stripping with lap dancing. I'll explain what I mean.

Stripping is upbeat, energized dancing while lap dancing is a slower, more sensual experience. Stripping is Michael Jackson's 'Beat It' while lap dancing is Sade's 'Smooth Operator' if you know what I mean.

So many women who try to lap dance to fast music end up bobbing up and down awkwardly Take your time. Let him savour every moment.

The music you choose should inspire fluid movements that run together smoothly, and involve a lot of gentle touching- running your hand along the side of his face, letting your hair fall around his neck, sliding your feet down the top of his thighs.

(Ooh, just the thought of that gives me the shivers in all the right places!)

Think about the kind of music he likes and go with something out of his CD collection. (R and B, for example, can be very well suited to lap dancing. Or if he's more of a jazz buff, feel free to take the theme in that direction.)

Whatever you choose, make sure it inspires YOU because if you don't like the song, you won't feel natural moving to it

See some of my sexy song choices...then again, I love 80s so I could be bias Sexy Lap Dance Music Picks